Saturday, May 1, 2010

News out there,
We hear a lot of people have been reading this blog, this to me is a good thing.
It's good to know that many people are interested in a front row seat to what Christ is doing in our lives.
Get this, to any of you who watch Grey's Anatomy on Thursday nights, did you see this weeks???
OMG OSH!!!
It was about Sloans daughter giving her baby up for adoption, not kidding.
It was a behind the scene of what adoptive families go through, and what the other side goes through too, (that in meaning the biological family side)
The daughter wanted to give the baby up for adoption, the dad (Mc Steamy) did not.
When the baby was born she gave the phone number to her dad to go call the adoptive family, who like us, has decorated a room, got all excited, and just prepared their hearts for a new family member.
Then after the baby was born, Mc Steamy tells her if she wants to keep the baby that he will help her,all this time a adoptive family is waiting.
The baby starts crying and she does not know what to do, she calls in a nurse to help her, the baby was hungry.
Kali then comes to Mc Steamy and says, I don't think she is ready to be a parent, even with your help, and there is a great family that she has picked to be parents to this baby, who already love him too.
I was so afraid the whole show what was going to happen, even during this pre-taped show I was just praying that the ending was good for the adoptive family.
It did, the very end it shows Sloan talking to his grandson telling him that him being adopted is good for him and he knows he will be loved and cared for.
The adoptive parents come in take their new son into their arms and are over come with joy.
I was relieved, I know happy ending do come true and I know that our little girl is out there.
I pray that if you read this and you have biological children of your own, you are blessed.
If you read this and on a journey to adopt, that you'll find comfort that it will end happy, sooner or later.
If you read this and you yourself have given up a child for adoption, that I'm proud of you for making the right choice for your child, and doing a very un-selfish act.
and if you are facing the choice right now what to do, know that you can pray to our heavenly father and he will make the choice clear to you on what is best for you and your baby.
Please know that with love I say, please... until you know what choice you want to make, please don't pick an adoptive family, it's like loosing a child, this is a big decision and with praying about it, and listening to God, he will lead you in the right choice.
We are standing on a promise that God clearly told us, now we wait on the Lord.
God Bless you all :)

1 comment:

  1. Hello! My name is Rachel, and our daughter was in care with Kay and Mike---so I discovered your blog through them. Anyway, I'm sure you are full of crazy emotions right now after the failed placement. It took me awhile to come to the realization that no matter how badly we wanted a baby, that baby wasn't ours until all the legal things had been taken care of. If and until that happens, that precious baby belongs to his or her biological mother. And even though it doesn't make sense to us, placing a baby, even if we think it should happen, isn't always what happens or is right for a child. (By the way, we also used Light House!) Anyway, I've learned some hard adoption lessons that you seem to be learning right now. :) I have an adoption blog, too, if you are interested:
    http://whitesugarbrownsugar.blogspot.com/ I hope you'll come visit my blog---and I hope we'll become online friends! (We'll actually be coming to KC in June to visit our daughter's bio family, the staff at Light House, and Kay and Mike. We should meet you all!)

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